I am gay. I had relations with the younger priest at my parish. He is 25 and big. I am 32 and rather small.
When we were together, I thought it was something special.
24 hours later, he is hysterical and yelling at me that I am a predator, and I have ruined his life.
So I back off.
Now he says he wants to meet with me at a restaurant (not my house.)
I wonder what he wants. If he wants me to stay away and keep my mouth shut, I am doing that.
Sounds like getting off is the cause of your problems….and if he wants to meet with you again I doubt if he wants you to keep your mouth shut.
I am so sorry… For YOUR protection, please do NOT meet with him ANYWHERE… for ANY reason!
The guy is insane
I don’t think I’d meet him. Continue with the mouth shut, staying away approach.
Find someone else.